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Every time I pursue a girl, I seem to chase her away. It's not like I call her 25 times a day maybe like once every three days I text or call to either say hi or ask her to hang out. All my life I've noticed that I do a better job attracting girls by not paying attention to them at all than when I try to do anything to attract them. Is there a way to show interest in a girl without showing any interest? No, that's not possible. So how do I get a girlfriend?

So there's this guy who supposedly likes me. At a party a while ago he told my friend's boyfriend that he thought I was hot. And I guess just recently he told the same guy that he really wants to be hooked up with me. Problem is, I'm not attracted to him physically. I know that looks aren't everything, but should they be taken into account also? My friends tell me to at least give him a chance, hang out as a group with my friend and her boyfriend, which would then essentially just turn into a double date.

Shhh! I’ll tell you a secret. I’m good at people-watching. I was at a party yesterday, and I saw this guy chatting with a flirty girl: as I watched them, I could literally see a big red sign flashing in his head: “How can I compete against the other men in here to attract that flirty girl?” I’m sure this guy spends a lot of time wondering how to be attractive to women.

I've liked this guy for a while now and I finally asked him to hang out. He's shy so I knew he wouldn't do it himself.When I asked him he wasn't sure what was happening :P But I made it clear it would just be us two and he said yes.But I'm not sure if he thinks I asked him out on a date, or just to hang out. What do guys usually think when a girl asks them to hang out sometime? Do they only say yes if they like her?!I'm 18

OK. So on the weekend I was at a club and I should let you know now I'm a pretty good dancer. So being the good dancer I am I dance for a short time with this girl. Then after she stops dancing with me, I go to another room, and later when I come back and her friend she's talking with sees me and she turns back and they look at me for a second (not sure if it was one of them omg not him again looks, but sure it wasn't) and I think their talking about me. So after a short while I walk up to the girl and ask her to dance but she declines.

I have two sides to me. there's the, what most would call "bad boy" side of me who likes fast cars, cool looking clothes, listens to hip-hop, is cocky-confident, opinionated. I tease, challenge, and act like a prize to women. But then there's the romantic side of me, who wants to take care of girls, be their night in shining armor, and just be their dream guy. However, when mixed, this combination doesn't go down so well. I think I come off as in congruent or weird, and don't have much luck. However, when I'm one or the other, I more or less have more luck.

Many think that playing a guitar in a rock band, and playing well, is one of the best and easiest tickets to getting laid, and, well, in most cases, that’s undeniably true. But consider this: I have a friend who’s always moody or sad. He has a great personality, he plays guitar all the time, in a band, and in front of audiences. He plays well. Yet, no booty for him.
What is he missing?

do you believe in this notion. I realized that I attract nerdy guys a lot lol I consider myself nerdy so I'm thinking that's the case...does anybody else disagree or agree and give examples...